I’ve been desperately waiting on Chris Brown’s comeback for about a year now. There’s been a few attempts made but it still hasn’t happened. With all of his talent, professionalism and good looks of course, I’m beyond confused as to why he hasn’t come back full throttle. I know I’m not the only one who loves him. As I mentioned we all know he looks good, but more importantly I’m infatuated with him because he makes incredible music and he’s talented beyond belief.

We all know he made a mistake. He has even admitted it himself. It’s not like he’s lying to us about the incident. Rihanna and Chris have both come clean about it in hopes of moving on from the situation. So why haven’t we let it happen yet?

Rihanna was the victim in the situation so of course we all felt bad for her. We were hoping for her to make a comeback and show how quickly a woman could bounce back after going through a traumatic situation. We were so involved in Rihanna’s comeback that we forgot about the other talent that needed to bounce back as quickly as possible in hopes of not ruining his career.

I’ve been a HUGE fan of Chris since his first album. When his sophomore album, Exclusive, came out I fell even deeper in love. His music is so good because I can relate to it. This is what I look for in every artist–can I really feel what they’re saying? With Chris, I can. Since we’re about the same age (his first album came out my senior year in high school) I feel like I’ve grown up with him. His music has been the soundtrack to so many events in my life, the good and the bad.

I’m not willing to give up on him because of the mistake he made. Yes, it was a serious mistake and I don’t take that lightly, but I’m all for people learning from their mistakes and changing. Celebrities make mistakes everyday. T.I. just got out of jail and he was there because he made a mistake but he recognized what he did wrong and he bettered himself afterwards. Why can’t we allow the same for Chris Brown?

I think what made this situation so bad in particular was that we all perceived him to be the perfect boy next door. We lived vicariously through his and Rihanna’a relationship. They seemed picture perfect until they weren’t. Everyone was disappointed to find out the truth but who’s to say Chris can’t change? He’s already proven that he has. Why are we trying to keep him down, what message is that sending? We should encourage positive changes, not black-list him forever.

I don’t understand how Chris has become the type of celebrity that is more popular for his wardrobe and personal life than his music. His mixtape “In My Zone” which came out back in February was full of hits but since it was a mixtape it didn’t reach his more commercial fanbase as only deep hip hop fans usually know about and download mixtapes. As many radio stations still won’t play his music and MTV refuses to play him as well, how can we expect a full comeback anytime soon? We know he made a mistake-we get it, but when are we going to be able to let it go? Banning him from a number of different commercial outlets which in any other situation would be useful for his promotion is only setting him back further.

There’s so few people in the industry like Chris Brown. It feels like there’s a void with him gone. It would be close to impossible to find someone that could replace him. To find someone who can dance and sing like him who can break into acting and do it all with style and grace is not going to be easy. The truth is his talent is irreplaceable. I don’t even want someone to replace him, I want him to come back and continue doing what he does best and that is entertain us. Team Breezy needs to stand together! Let me know what you think…

-Rachel Samara | follow me @rachelsamara

Does John Mayer have a n*gger pass? In a recent interview with Playboy magazine John Mayer goes in. Aside from saying Jessica Simpson is like crack cocaine, John Mayer goes in how Black people love him, and if he has a hood pass. Which he turns around and says “You could call it a n*gger pass” The exchange is amazing and definitely worth the read as he speaks on Jay-Z, Hillary from Fresh Prince, having a David Duke Penis and much more. Enjoy.

PLAYBOY: If you didn’t know you, would you think you’re a douche bag?

MAYER: It depends on what I picked up. My two biggest hits are “Your Body Is a Wonderland” and “Daughters.” If you think those songs are pandering, then you’ll think I’m a douche bag. It’s like I come on very strong. I am a very…I’m just very. V-E-R-Y. And if you can’t handle very, then I’m a douche bag. But I think the world needs a little very. That’s why black people love me.

PLAYBOY: Because you’re very?

MAYER: Someone asked me the other day, “What does it feel like now to have a hood pass?” And by the way, it’s sort of a contradiction in terms, because if you really had a hood pass, you could call it a n*gger pass. Why are you pulling a punch and calling it a hood pass if you really have a hood pass? But I said, “I can’t really have a hood pass. I’ve never walked into a restaurant, asked for a table and been told, ‘We’re full.’”

PLAYBOY: It is true; a lot of rappers love you. You recorded with Common and Kanye West, played live with Jay-Z.

MAYER: What is being black? It’s making the most of your life, not taking a single moment for granted. Taking something that’s seen as a struggle and making it work for you, or you’ll die inside. Not to say that my struggle is like the collective struggle of black America. But maybe my struggle is similar to one black dude’s.

PLAYBOY: Do black women throw themselves at you?

MAYER: I don’t think I open myself to it. My dick is sort of like a white supremacist. I’ve got a Benetton heart and a f*ckin’ David Duke cock. I’m going to start dating separately from my dick.

PLAYBOY: Let’s put some names out there. Let’s get specific.

MAYER: I always thought Holly Robinson Peete was gorgeous. Every white dude loved Hilary from The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. And Kerry Washington. She’s superhot, and she’s also white-girl crazy. Kerry Washington would break your heart like a white girl. Just all of a sudden she’d be like, “Yeah, I sucked his dick. Whatever.” And you’d be like, “What? We weren’t talking about that.” That’s what “Heartbreak Warfare” is all about, when a girl uses jealousy as a tactic.

You’ve probably heard that women dress for other women, and the same theory of catty one-upmanship holds true on Valentine’s Day. Yes, even the most cynical lass wants to evoke jealousy in her gal pals on February 14. “Women are naturally prone to compete over their mates,” says Helen Fisher, Ph.D., author of Why Him? Why Her? “Plus, competition drives up her testosterone levels, increasing her libido.” Translation: Stick her with a stale present and she will second-guess your lazy ass. But drop an envy-inciting gift on her and she’ll be way more amenable to trying the “love harness” you bought on Craigslist. To ensure your V-Day pays dividends, we’ve created the ultimate cheat sheet for upgrading those mid-rung doghouse ideas into top-shelf sex investments.

1) Box of Chocolates
Upgrade: Throw her a chocolate tasting party. For a few hundred bucks, an expert will bring an array of chocolates to her home with wine and explain the nuances of the confections and the pairings. Many boutique chocolatiers, elite wine stores, and gourmet grocers offer the service.
Bragging rights: “He’s going to love how I work off all the calories.”
Last-minute save: Make her 2-Minute Truffles: Break a bar of dark chocolate in a bowl and pour in 7/8 of a cup of almost-boiled heavy cream. Stir until melted, then stick in fridge. Once cool, scoop chocolate with a spoon and roll in cocoa powder.

2) Hallmark Card
Upgrade: To create a superior memento, upload your best couple photos onto shutterfly.com and design a personalized hardcover photo book. ($15)
Bragging rights: “Do you know how many trees he killed to express his love?”
Last-minute save: Create a virtual photo album. This isn’t nearly as impressive as a book, but still trumps a crappy card from 7-Eleven. Go on flickr.com, upload your favorite couple photos, and organize them into album form in seconds, for free.(Tip: Remove porn images from your desktop before showing her.)

3) Lingerie
Upgrade: Sure, one glance at her Victoria’s Secret set gives you a tingle (see page 14 for sensory overload). But to incite genuine panty-monium, give her an unmentionable from high-end lingerie boutique Kiki de Montparnasse. They sell everything from bras to cat suits to battery-powered “instruments of pleasure,” but even a great pair of panties (like the Muse Tuxedo, $175, at left) will put her in the mood to tear ’em off. kikidm.com
Bragging rights: “Oh, you’ve never heard of it? Cameron Diaz wears Kiki.”

4) Dinner Reservations
Upgrade: Make this 15-minute, four-star Spaghetti Pomodoro from Scott Conant, top chef at Scarpetta in N.Y.C.
Bragging rights: “He was so cute and only lost one finger!”
Last-minute save: Really? Just make the damn spaghetti.
Ingredients
1/2 pound spaghetti
2 Tbs. olive oil
1 medium shallot, sliced thin
1 clove garlic, sliced thin
2 pints cherry tomatoes, halved
Pinch of crushed red pepper
1/2 cup fresh basil, sliced
1/2 Tbs. butter
3 Tbs. Parmigiano-Reggiano

Method
1. Boil spaghetti in salted water.
2. Heat oil in sauté pan over medium-high heat. Gently heat shallots and garlic, browning slightly. Add tomatoes, crushed pepper, a little salt, and lots of love.
3. Cook until tomatoes soften. Add six ounces of boiling water to tomatoes. Toss with a wooden spoon, adding basil, butter, and Parmigiano. Get it nice and creamy. Insert in mouth.

Hello Fam!!!!

It’s been a minute since I have blogged on here and since my last blog, if you search back, A LOT has happened in my life and I don’t mean that in just a good type of happen, but just overall….A LOT HAS HAPPENED IN MY LIFE!  As we all know, my loving Fiance, Casey Johnson has passed away right before we were about to get married, however I REFUSE to speak of her ever again in the media.  She is now locked deep in my heart forever and I refuse to talk about it any further, so will all do respect, please let her rest in peace and let my heart rest in peace and let us both be.  Thank you.

Now let’s get on to the other stuff poppin; off in my life,  So many things have changed within me this past year!  I truly believe that 2009 was a very challenging and testing year for me.  I went through Domestic Violence Abuse, to losing my wife, and now…..I am carrying a child, and going through ALL of these traumatic and emotional things in the media is not something ANYONE would be able to withstand, however, I have grown to be even ore of a stronger person because of it. Now that I look back, in 2009, I see myself now, that I was still only a little girl lost, strong, yet still trying to find herself.  However the WOMAN, that I have grown up to be TODAY is someone you would NOT recognize at all!

I have changed so much as a person and my perspectives on life.  Before I really had nothing to live for and because of that, I felt like I had nothing to lose  I didn’t care about anything.  I would have late night random inapropriate Ustream shows, my stripteasses, etc.  However that little girl named Tila Tequila is LONG GONE!  Ever since I found out I was pregnant, and this was no accident I have been planning this for a long time, my whole outlook on life has changed.  NOW I actually have something to live for.  NOW all the work that I do has meaning behind it because NOW I have a baby to look after and everything I do from this point forward will reflect on my baby and I know for a fact that I will be the greatest mother in the world!!!!!!  Aside from being pregnant, It feel such a strong connection to my baby that I have reached out to a very good friend of mine, who is an ambassador.  I told him that I wanted to adopt another child, a boy, about 2-3 years of age from Africa.  Well first I told him Haiti, but then he told me that Haiti was no longer allowing adoptions, which I think is sad because I think there are SO many babies and children out there who would love to get away from a run down 3rd world country to live in a home that is full of LOVE and where they will always feel safe.

Growing up I never really had a REAL family to call my own.  Yes I have family of blood, but that doesn’t mean I consider them my family for we have all been estranged for a very long time.  That being said, that is the reason why I was SOOOOOOO excited to start a new family of my own with Casey. She never had a real family either since she was also estranged from them, so with that her and I immediately bonded. I love Casey and will always love her but that is for me to keep to myself and my babies.

Now let’s get to the Twitter thing.  I was the #1 most looked after on Twitter.  I was always the top 5 list on twitter who were the most influential people on Twitter. So if I had such a great ground and influence on Twitter, why in the hell would I delete it you say?? Well like I said, I have become a different WOMAN TODAY!  Back then people can talk all the sh*t they want about me and i will either ignore it, or go INNN on people.  Now, I see people talking sh*t about my unborn child and to me, that is not something I shall tolerate.  Nor will I let those mean words upset me because I know my baby can feel everything I feel.  So with that said, I deleted my twitter.  It was just such a negative place and I’m not the ONLY celeb who deleted their twitter page just like Miley Cyrus and Chris Brown and then me.  On top of that, the media would follow every tweet I make and blog about it, turning it all into a negative story and twisting all of my words around.  I had enough. So I deleted my Twitter page.  People said that I was just an attenion whore, blah blah, same sh*t.  But really I also did that to prove to them that Im not an attention whore. I DONT NEED TWITTER to get attention.  I have huge projects right now and that’s what I have been doing all this time.  Running my record label “TILA TEQUILA RECORDS” to which the first artist I signed is RAZ B from B2K.  I also just opened up my own Management firm “LITTLE MISS TRENDSETTER MANAGEMENT LLC”

The reason why I am doing all this  is to prepare for when my baby comes  I did this ALL FOR MY CHILDREN AND NOT FOR MYSELF!  I wanted to make SURE, that when I have a baby, that It would be a time where I wouldn’t have to work so much or worry about income and raise my children.  yes it will be hard to be a single mother raising all of these kids by myself, but it’s so worth it!

I know what you’re all thinking, “THIS DOES NOT SOUND LIKE THE TILA TEQUILA THAT WE ARE USED TO!” and you know what? You are absolutely correct.  I am a real WOMAN now, who is actually resposible, and I now have a higher meaning in life to live and give alll the love that I never got as a child to my children.  I know the public won’t immediately believe me or accept that what I say is true, but I’m not worried about it cuz only time will tell.  Besides, my children are my #1 priority now, and no longer what the media thinks of me and so and so.

So yes, I deleted my Twitter page because now that I am pregnant, I will not tolerate disgusting and rude comments people are making to a beautiful unborn child given to me by GOD.  That is just not acceptable to me, so with a click of a button.  I deleted it.

Of course about 4 days later I have returned to twitter @officalTila only due to the fact that I will no longer be on there to talk about my personal life so that leaves a door for random haters to get inside my personal biz, but to merely keep in touch with my fans and promote all the cool new projects I have coming up, and also to keep you all posted on how I’m doing and how the baby is doing!!!

With that said, say goodbye to Tila Tequila and say Hello to Ms Nguyen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Lots more to come in 2010 so stay tuned.  Actions speak louder than words so I will just let time do its work and you will all see for yourself.  Plus, I can’t wait til my baby comes out!!!  I hope it’s a boy cuz I’ve always wanted a son that’s a “MAMA’S BOY” however no matter what gender I get, I will love them regardless!!!!!!  All I know is, my children is going to have the BEST mother!  I planned my whole life out just for my children believe it or not! I was just waiting for the right time to bring them into this world so that I have all the time in the world to spend with my kids and not have to worry about work or anything else except for them.  Just in case you’re wondering, my baby is of mixed ethnicity: Vietnamese/French and African Amercian.  They are going to be SOOOOOOOO BEAUTIFUL!  I can’t wait for the world to see how beautiful my baby will be!  I am going to be a very strict mother, but only due to tough love.

Anyway, so yes, I am now back on Twitter, I am an attention whore, and if you would like to follow me as I document my life, please follow me at @OfficialTila

Love
Ms. Nguyen

Thought Gina Carano delivered a wicked jab? Take a gander at Melanie, one of the beautiful gals BSN (Bio-Engineered Supplements and Nutrition, Inc.) took out to the beach for a pretty sweet photo shoot. Consider us technically knocked out.

We’ve yet to pick our jaw up from the floor, especially after seeing the Honolulu-born model in action. (Seriously, what is it with women wearing fight gear that makes us want to be on the receiving end of a right hook from them?) She currently resides in Miami, likes to “wear little outfits and go out,” and her favorite body part is her legs. We can’t agree more.

Check out her video and photos below, including a shower scene. We repeat, she was in a shower. We thought so.

Courtesy of maxim.com

The cause of death on the 50-year-old’s death certificate has been amended to ‘homicide’ after months of speculation.

According to the document the King of Pop died from ‘acute Propofol intoxication’ due to an ‘intravenous injection from another’.

However after further investigations, the certificate was amended and re-released in August by medical examiner Christopher Thomas. It now states the cause of death on 25th June 2009 as ‘homicide’.

A source said that the Jackson family are ‘keeping faith with the police’, adding: ‘We still feel that there is more than one person responsible for Michael’s tragic death.

Kendra Wilkinson, former Playboy bunny and self-professed party girl, is now a wife and a new mother — but she wouldn’t trade her life with husband Hank Baskett III and baby son Hank for the world!

“A whole new life just started for us,” Kendra explains to OK!. “I’m still going to be me, though. I’m at a place now where I can have fun but not go overboard. I’m a lot more responsible now. I’m a mom!” For a peek into Kendra’s life with baby, check out OK!’s exclusive Kendra Baby Album!

Katy Perry has sparked speculation that she is expecting her first child with fiance Russell Brand after dropping several small hints of pregnancy on Twitter
this week.

The 25-year-old singer and the British comic confirmed their engagement earlier this week.

Just a few days ago, she Tweeted: “Let me tell you 2010 is BUMPIN!” On Friday, Katy furthered fueled the rumors when she sent a public message to Brand, saying: “i heard ur prego-ed.”

Katy and Russell, 34, have been dating since September. Russell proposed during a religious ceremony in India over the holidays.

The fact that Bailon moved on with her life has broken Rob Kardashian’s heart some more. He came to know about Adrienne Bailon’s new boyfriend at the end of Sunday’s episode “Keeping Up With the Kardashians”.

The long time girlfriend of Rob Kardashian, “Adrienne Bailon” broke up with the reality star recently. People have wondered that what happened between them. The fact was cleared in the latest episode of “Keeping Up With the Kardashians” when Rob Kardashian admitted the fact that he cheated on Adrienne Bailon.

For those fans who have wondered that what exactly happened between Rob and Bailon, the answer is that Kardashian sibling cheated on the former Cheetah Girl, but a question remains…and that is with whom Rob Kardashian cheated with on Bailon.

In this Sunday night’s episode Rob did admitted that he cheated on Adrienne Bailon but remorseful Kardashian sibling did not reveal the name on the person.

Although, many feel bad for the Kardashian sibling “Rob”, but it was his mistake that lead to the break up and now he is dealing with a broken heart.

On the other hand Adrienne Bailon has moved on and found herself a new boyfriend. The news reached through a text message to Rob. Rob received a text message on his cell phone towards the end of the episode, which was sent by Adrienne Bailon’s new boyfriend.

The couple “Rob and Adrienne Bailon” dated for two years before breaking up, she made frequent appearances on the reality show while they were a couple. She was also one of the guests at Lamar Odom and Khloe Kardashina’s wedding ceremony.